Proverbs 29:15 "The rod and reproof"

“The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.”

The key to effective child training is not just the ‘rod’ nor just ‘reproofs’, but both. When the rod is used, a rational, appropriate reproof should be given. This reproof clarifies the exact transgression, distinguishing good from evil. The reproof also provides instruction from the parent to the child. In this way, the child gains wisdom. The purpose of the rod is to administer required punishment for the transgression, bring the child to repentance, and provide opportunity for the reproof. One word of caution: Do not discipline your child in anger or express disgust with him. The unwise parent who displays these attitudes will prevent an environment for proper training and will not win the heart of their child.

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Related Scriptures: Proverbs 22:6, 15; 23:13-15; 29:17; Hebrews 12:10-11

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“My mother had a lot of trouble with me, but I think she enjoyed it.” – Mark Twain